“In a speech Abraham Lincoln delivered at the height of the Civil War, he referred to the Southerners as fellow human beings who were in 
error. An elderly lady chastised him for not calling them irreconcilable 
enemies who must be destroyed. “Why, madam,” Lincoln replied, 
“do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?” We live in a society that tells us that we should hate are enemies and repay them with evil. I know the feeling when we are angered by the hurt, d